How BIG is your voice?
In my last blog I asked the question “Do you have a voice”? In this one I ask a related question “How BIG is your voice?”
Have you ever had a situation where you’ve heard someone say something, or maybe you read something in a book, a newspaper, a blog, or an inspirational quote, and it inspired you to take action? Even if you didn’t take action, you probably thought about it for a moment or two. Maybe what you read or heard was so meaningful to you that it changed your life, maybe only for a few days or weeks, or maybe it changed your life forever.
Kings and queens, presidents and prime ministers, mayors, company leaders, teachers and many others use their voice to inspire their commonwealth, their countries, their cities, their companies, and their students. For governing leaders, what they say and how they say it has the ability to bring entire nations together, especially in times of crisis. For company leaders, their voice sets direction for their entire company. Teachers set the groundwork for our children’s knowledge which will guide them their entire lives. Those are pretty powerful voices. Admittedly, that’s a big part of their role so you may expect them to have a powerful voice, but they are powerful voices nonetheless.
I personally don’t think that we really understand the power of our voice, be it spoken or written. I’ve written in another blog about events of synchronicity where someone might overhear a comment and know that they’ve heard the same comment several times in the past few weeks so they stop and take notice. The speaker of the comment doesn’t even know that the person overheard them, and yet the comment had an impact on that bystander. A powerful voice?
I’ve also read a story about a mother with a full-blown migraine yelling at her six-year-old daughter to stop singing because she “can’t stand it.” The daughter doesn’t know that the mother meant she couldn’t stand it at the moment and thinks her mother simply hates her singing. In her present state the mother doesn’t realize her assertion came out so strongly, and when she recovers she barely remembers her outburst. So the daughter stops singing… forever! Well, that’s a pretty powerful voice too.
Several times of late I’ve heard people say that they don’t like how things are going on in society, in their community, or in the world, and that they want “to change the world”, “to make a difference”. Some people hear this comment and think the person is foolhardy. Some people who have the thought instantly think of themselves as too small to make a difference.
“If you think you are too small to make a difference, try sleeping with a mosquito.”
― Dalai Lama XIV
My belief is that anything that has ever been accomplished started with a thought that was shared and it grew into something. Once the conversation starts and enough people believe in it, anything can happen. My understanding is that the recent uprisings in the Middle East were largely fueled and organized by ordinary citizens’ use of social media like twitter and FaceBook. Were those citizens too small to make a difference? How big was their voice?
“Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed, citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has.”
― Margaret Mead
Of course you could sit back and do nothing because somebody else will probably do it anyway. You might recognize the four people in this story; your kids have probably told you stories about the same people.
An important job had to be done and Everybody was sure that Somebody would do it. Anybody could have done it, but Nobody did it. Somebody got angry about that because it was Everybody’s job. Everybody thought that Anybody could do it, but Nobody realized that Everybody wouldn’t do it. It ended up that Everybody blamed Somebody when Nobody did what Anybody could have done.
So maybe your voice changes one person, an innocent bystander. Maybe it changes your circle of friends. Maybe it changes your company. Maybe it changes an entire community. But you know what, my belief is that “we’re all in this together” and if you change one person, even if it’s a change to yourself, you indeed have changed the world. And for those of you that think you just might be able to make a BIG difference, this one is for you:
What do you believe? How big is your voice? Do you think you’re too small to make a difference? Will you “be the change” you’d like to see?
If you’d like to share an interesting “big voice” story, send it along to [email protected].